I am in the ‘screwy’ part of age. To old for games, to young to crawl up and go to a Nursing home. Finding love in Church, everyone left is either one foot in the grave, or severly lacking in not only a job, but, handicapped mentally and physically. All the good ones are taken, old cliche, i know, but still. I am not being to picky…but it seems, the older we women get, the more invisible we become.
Any thoughts or comments…Hey, i believe in humour..without it, who would survive in this crazy world…
I want to read from mature people, not 17 +, I have a daughter that age..and they are so optimistic, sometimes its nauseating…LOL…
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As cheesy as it sounds…try eharmony.com or match.com…you can just talk to guys and have fun with it over the internet..and then go on a date if you want to. Even if you don’t go on a real date, it was great fun to flirt and it reminded me how to flirt again, after being divorced for two years.
I met my now husband on there, and two of my other friends have done the same – we are all late 20′s, early 30′s and have no time to go out and find a guy due to our careers – so the internet was one of few options aside from speed dating which is a total waste of time.
Try it, you never know!
Ok…..I completely get it…..however at 43 I found the man of my dreams. I am fit, I dress young and act young. No old lady hair doos for me. Most men want a sexy woman that they can be proud to have standing next to them as well as lay next to night after night. I live in a small town so my choices were limited were, therefore I went online, I looked at I am certain over 30,000 pictures and profiles. i narrowed it down to one man. Emailed him, he lived one state away, about 1 1/2 hour drive. We emailed back and forth for a while, he called me in about 5 days, first conversation was 6 hours, uncharacteristic for both of us. Met three days later and have been together ever since. I found him on http://www.singleparentmeet.com….be careful in your choices, there are many men out there looking for you, you just have to match yourself with the person who wants what you want and likes what you like. Go for it, don’t be discouraged….he is saddling his white horse as we speak!!
Have you considered setting up a profile on match.com or eharmony? You might be surprised who you will meet! If nothing else, you could at least make some new friends. I would also suggest local organizations where you can get involved in your hobbies. Whether it’s astronomy, hiking, gardening, painting, whatever… try looking online for groups in your area. Then you will meet someone who actually enjoys the same interests as you. And if not, then you will have at least met new people who will bring joy to your life in other ways. Oh, I’m 35 btw, a divorced professional mother of one, and I know what you mean about all the good ones being taken!
i agree with LACEY if you have tried everuwhere and cant seem to find the ” RIGHT ONE” why not try this site? you have nothing to loose.
Ok first of all where do you live, because we need to get together I am in the same boat. I tried church..Tried the online dating thing(now I know why people get on there and lie)…It is soo hard to be a divorced mom and to find new love. If you find out the secret let me know because I have been wondering the same thing. We should start some kind of group for this lol. I am from fort lauderdale everyone here seems to be married, retired, or gay.
Well you have to go to the right kind of place to attract the right kind of man. Go to a Jazz club for a older crowd or a poety reading find a new hobby learn to swing dance or ballroom dance. Your sure to meet new people there. And have fun.
try to meet someone online…it’s 2007 – that’s a perfectly acceptable way to meet a man these days…. yahoo personals, eharmony….
If all the good men are taken, then why settle for what’s left? Heck, get out there and steal a good man. If you have the superior looks, intellect, and career than the other woman, then don’t stop yourself.
Life is too short to settle for left overs. Always go for the best. Don’t feel bad if a marriage ends. It’s always the man’s fault anyways.
I hear you girl! lol
Hey young lady what are u talking about? You can`t find a man. I`m right here. I`m a widower. send me a email.