I work with another nurse and seems she is always riding me about something. Either to me directly, or I hear it behind my back. I wish I could just find humor in it! But I end up being depressed and upset about it. Any advice?
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i have learned that sometimes you have to become tough almost like nothing can bother you. It is one of these things were you just have to say to yourself that I come to do my job and at the end of the day. I don’t have to deal with. Learn to ingnore. initially, it is tough, but after awhile you learn to do it without thinking. that is the only way you can survive in a cruel world.
Don’t take the criticism seriously. It’s not good to be a sensitive soul. Maintain her friendship and you can find a good sleep.
One way to bypass the criticism is to remain as a mute witness to whatever is said about you without any resentment rising in your mind. Secondly your body is being criticized. You must see the philosophical point. Body is full of dirt. It needs cleaning frequently. It need clothing everyday. It has to be fed many number of times. It gets ill very easily. What is there in the body to appreciate? All the bodies which are criticized and all the bodies which criticize sail in the same boat. No body is better when you ponder. Only if you take the criticism in, then resentment develops. Secondly when somebody delivers a registered letter and you don’t receive it or refuse to receive it. It goes back to the sender. In both the cases you need not take any thing to heart since everything is a passing show. nagarajan.
I’ve been a nurse for 12 years…basically, she is unhappy and she wants you to be unhappy too. Nurses know how to get to other nurses…insinuate that they are not a good nurse in some way. Don’t get mad or angry at her. Pray for her and then brush it off your shoulders. Once she knows she can’t get to you, then she will leave you alone.
Sure, look at it like this, if she is talking about you, she is talking about every one else the same. Must really suck to be here. She is miserable, for only miserable people find joy in being rude, nasty to others. So when she gets started, I would look at her and say “Oh, I am sorry you are having a bad day, Please don’t take it out on me” With a slight smile, it works every time. Good luck and God bless****
I would tell Mrs. Snachet that you are going to poke each eye ball out with that pink thing – then we’ll see who gets the last laugh and I know if you did that you would find humor in that one!
Hit her first thing in the morning with the pink thing!!
DRIVE HER INSANE!
Create a new e-mail account with her name on yahoo or something and send it to her work e-mail address all day with random messages. You could include links about being too negative, gossiping at work, and whatever gossip you’ve heard her say about someone else, put it in the e-mail so she’ll think someone knows that she’s gossiping; this may straighten out the problem a bit!
If not, it will drive her crazy having e-mails coming in to her from herself! Use the computers at your local library.
If you don’t feel comfortable doing that, start hanging up all kinds of positive messages, and the value of silence around your space.