I’ve been talking to 4 girls. All are attractive and fun to be around in their own unique way. My goal is to be in relationship because eventually, hopefully soon, Ms right will just land on my lap and say Hello!
Here’s what I’m working with right now.
Lauren- I’ve known her for about a week now. She’s a cutie, smart, very liberal, loves music, poetry, and activism. When i met her she was wearing cut offs and sandals and had her poetry journal with her. She said “here read this poem and tell me what you think!” That was a first for me. We’ve been out about 4 times now. On the last date she wore a nice dress and she looked good. I like that she is quick witted and challenges my conservative view of the world. We can joke and tease each other about our opposite view points and never have an angry word. She also plays pool really well and likes loud music the same way i do.
Kellie – I’ve know her for about 3 weeks. I’m the first guy she’s gone out with since her divorce. She is a little skiddish i guess. She’s really tall and good looking. Works in the medical field. Likes to go out for dinner/drinks but seems guarded and has really limited availability due to her kids and soccer mom type schedule. I’d like her to open up and tell me what is really going on with her but so far not getting much idea of what she is really about.
Allison – I’ve know her for about 3 days. I was out getting a beer with my buddy and this really sexy brunette just sits down right next to us. She was wearing this tight dress that showed off her amazing body. She looked like she was dressed for an upscale night club. (we were at a local beer pub by the way) I could not just ignore her. We started talking to her. Lots of drinks later the bar closed and then she explained that earlier in the night she was at an upscale place and her her friend had ditched her to go home with a guy and she had no ride. What? Really? Anyway i gave her a ride home. Was i supposed to just say sorry I’m not supposed to give rides to strangers? Anyway I got her home safely. she said Thanks.bla bla. hugs, more hugs. We exchanged numbers. We’ve talked on the phone twice. we both have the same crazy/silly sense of humor. Also found out she is nurse and likes to ride her bike on the trails around here.
What should i do here? Pass or play? What’s your advice on each of them?
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who’s hotter?
Try em all, it doesnt have to be all at the same time either. But thats just me.
Lauren or Allison
lauren!!
stop speaking to all of them for a week.
call the one you thought about most.
I’d say you should Kellie out because she already has kids. But that’s just me.
right now id pick the first one.
but.. it sounds like you havent had enough time with any of them to make any decisions yet…
who has the biggest boobs?
I liked the way you described Lauren the best.. Pick her
Lauren. You should have some one in your life who challenges who you are, then you learn more about yourself, she sounds cute and down to earth, the others seem guarded (kellie) and a little forward (allison) no offense.
I pick Lauren.
Only because you put her first which means she was the first that popped into your head and you seemed to like her more about her personality not her looks.
You mentioned only three. My vote would be to consider Lauren or perhaps Allison but since Kellie is divorced, I suggest that you not choose her. Why? Well, having been married complicates any future relationships she has moreso than if she were simply dating longterm.
I don’t know if you and she would be a good match. I wish you all the best.
If your looking for a serious relationship Lauren sounds like the girl you should choose.
Now if you really want to get to know kellie go right and ahead and go after her, but only if your ready to get involved with a woman who already has kids that you would eventually have to meet and talk to.
Ignore Allison.
Trust me.
Either one you pick, you haven’t known them very long. So, if you wanna call it quits it won’t be a big deal. With that said, it seems like you like the first girl Lauren more than the rest anyway. No one can tell you who to pick, only your heart can. I believe in destiny, if you are meant to be with any of these girls there is nothing you can do to change it. It will just happen. Do you really feel like you have to make a decision this early in the game anyway? If so, then just follow your heart and good luck.
I say give allison a sober shot.
lauren maybe one more date to see where she stands
kellie you should just give a week to see where she stands…i say bail on her.
take allison out
It sounds like you’re not ready to be exclusive to any one of them; it sounds like they’re all recent acquaintances, anyway. Why not pursue dating all of them casually? Just don’t lead any on to believe that you’re exclusive to any one of them; make it clear that you’re out for fun, and to maybe see if someone matches up for something deeper, eventually.
If you still can’t pick out any one as one you would be willing to give up dating around for after you know them better, then you’re definitely not ready to be exclusive.
definetly Lauren….seems like u guys are more like eachother and feel comfortable around eachother. not Allison or Kellie…gotta pick one! its not good to have that many people u have feeling for!
well..coming from a girl.. i would pick either lauren or allison.. (oddly enough my name is allison and i have a best friend named lauren.) but i wood not pick Kellie cuz of her schedule and u hardly no her. so u should stick with allison if u really like her and dont think she will run away with another guy at a bar. or pick lauren, which has a lot in common with u.
lauren she seems the best out of all
I think you should spend more time and get to know each of them on a deeper level before decide to make a decision. Everything that glitters isn’t gold. They may be the hottest and coolest females on the planet to you right now, but everyone has another, less attractive side to them and I’m sure it’ll show before it’s too late. With that sense, you can see who’s less attractive side you’d put up with. lol Well, hopefully. But based on the information given, I’d take a chance with Lauren if I were you. People who challenge are always the best. They’re so exciting, don’t you think!?
well…
from the looks of things, it seems as if u like Lauren better.
So y dnt u just get to kno her more and slowly but politely stop talking to the other girls, while still getting to kno them to.
But all in all. I think you like lauren alot deep down inside just by the way you described her…
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I dont know if you have a really big problem. Most guys would like to be in your shoes I would think.
Anyways, in a personal opinion, I have been in a relationship where we had opposite political views and it wasn’t very pretty. At first it was okay but then it became an ugly situation we had to avoid at all cost. It may not be like that for everyone, but if you are both deeply devoted to your party and like talking about politics, the big blow up, is bound to occur. At least in my eyes.
As far as the recent divorcee, you dont want to be a rebound for her, and if you dont have kids and arent interested in that kind of situation right now, I wouldnt do it.
And lastly, the last girl, you dont know too much about her, so get to know her. Get to know all of them, maybe none of them are right for you. You dont know until you try!
well it depends on what your particular taste is and please don’t listen to the first to comments although you should go out with each girl a couple more times and get to know them a little more.
hope i helped at least a little good luck
I say Lauren,
you obviously like her for more then her looks.
kellie has kids and shes guarded idk about her:/
and you only like allison for her looks, which im sure alot of guys do if you know what i mean so if your looking for a long term thing i wouldn’t pick her but if you just wanna have fun shed be the right girl.
so id say see how it goes with lauren(:
I don’t think Kellie would work out because she won’t open up to you. You seem like you really want to date Allison but you don’t know for sure she wants to date you. She might have led you on. And Lauren sounds very nice and your type. But pick whoever you want. And someone